1. Do you like yourself? If not, what don’t you like about yourself and why? Are you actively trying to change the things about yourself that you don’t like?
  2. Are you honest? Do you sometimes misrepresent the truth? If so, why?
  3. Are you critical of others? Do you need to blame others as a way of protecting yourself?
  4. Are you able to admit it when you are wrong? Are you open to feedback from other people about yourself?
  5. Do you need the approval of others? If so, why?
  6. Do you consider yourself strong or weak? Are you afraid of taking care of yourself?
  7. Have you ever allowed yourself to be in a relationship with a person you didn’t really love, nut it seemed better than being alone?
  8. Do you respect yourself? Can you decide to make changes in your lifestyle and then stick to your commitment?
  9. Are you afraid of responsibility? Or do you feel responsible for everything and everyone?
  10. Are you continually wishing your life were different? If so,  are you doing anything to change it, or have you resigned yourself to your situation?